An Opportunity to Invite

A friend of mine recently came to me and said, “I think I have lost my faith… what do you do to get it back?”  I was shocked by the boldness of the statement and the desperation of the question.  What do I do? What do I say?  I don’t want to turn this person off of the faith forever by giving some trite or meaningless answer.  But I also recognized that God was giving me an opportunity here to listen and to be a part of His kingdom. 

Before launching into an explanation, God gave me the grace to ask what had happened.  And then I listened. Not so that I could answer all the questions, but so that I could really hear what was being said.  I felt no need to “defend” God or to have all the answers.  After listening, I felt that I could honestly say that this person felt alone and outside of God’s family.  Without having all the answers, I simply invited this person to “Come and See.”  Come to one of our worship services, and experience the love and goodness of God. Listen to the music and hear the message of his Love.  Hear God’s word as you share in a community of faith. And hear the invitation to listen for God in your life. 

I wasn’t being called to save this person. I wasn’t called to have all the answers. I was simply called to offer the invitation, which is all any of us can do.  Who needs an invitation from you?  You know the love of Jesus, the power of worship, and the comfort that comes from being a part of a community of faith. Who can you share that with.  Offer the invitation.  Come…. and See. 

Pastor Bill  <><

Know-Grow-Sow? What’s it all about?

A little while back someone from church said to me, “What ever happened to our church being a Purpose Driven Church?  I thought our mission was to be purpose driven, not this Know-Grow-Sow thing?”  It’s a great question and one that is wonderful to answer!

Know-Grow-Sow IS purpose driven!  Rather than just reusing Saddleback’s words over and over again, we decided to make Purpose Drive our own experience here at King of Kings.  And so we took the 5 purposes, and made them into a Mission that is totally ours.

The Five Purposes, in case you have forgotten, are Worship, Fellowship, Discipleship, Ministry and Mission (Evangelism).  We took to those five purposes and we put them into our own words.  We come to KNOW the love of God as we Worship together. As a church, we believe that most people will come in contact with God’s message of love and forgiveness through our Worship experience. It happens in other ways, but this is usually the first way they connect to the message.  Then we GROW in God’s Word through our opportunities for Fellowship and Discipleship.  This happens from PreSchool through Adult in our many educational opportunities:  PreSchool, UpStreet, the River, 4:12, and LifeGroups all combine aspects of Fellowship AND Discipleship so that we can GROW as God’s people.  Finally, we SOW that love back into the world through our Ministry in the body of Christ, and our Mission out into the world.  And when we SOW that love in our neighborhoods, communities, schools, and workplaces, and we invite others to come and see the goodness of our God through Jesus, they in turn come to worship to KNOW the love of God! 

All of the parts of the Purpose Driven church are a part of our Mission.  We continue to live out the purposes of the Great Commission (”Go into all the world and make disciples”) and the Great Commandment (”Love God with all your heart, love your neighbor as yourself”) in everything we do together as God’s people.  Join us as we continue to live out that mission at King of Kings. 

Pastor Bill  <><

Unexpected Prayer

Not too long ago I was with a group of friends at a restaurant that I go to a lot.  I go enough that there are a few of the servers that I know by sight. I don’t know them by name, but at least I recognize them. Maybe you know what I’m talking about.  My friends and I have been going there for a while. We come together and share our lives and pray together for each other.  We were getting ready to have our meal when we paused to pray for God’s blessing on our meal.  We have done this so many times, but this time something different happened.  Before we prayed, one of my friends at the table asked our server if there was anything we could pray for her.  She immediately poured out her desire for us to pray for her family. After a few minutes of conversation with her sharing her concerns, we prayed to bless our food AND we prayed for God to be with her and her family.

It made me think of how many people are all around us every day who are simply in need of prayer and care.  And how many of them go unheard?  Or how many of them may not even have a community of faith to turn to for prayer?  If we focused a little bit less on ourselves, and a little bit more on those who are around us, would we see more people who are in need of prayer?  People who need someone to just listen?  And as God’s people, are we listening more?  It has changed my whole perspective on the people who are around me on a daily basis, and what needs they may have.  Look around you… who has God put in your life that might need a little bit of prayer, a little bit of care? 

A blessed New Year–Pastor Bill  <><

A Time of Confirmation

 

At the end of May we have approximately 13 young people who will be confirming their faith in God on Pentecost Sunday.  What an exciting time for us as a family of faith!  This will take place at a special service at 1:00 p.m. on May 31st. 

This blog is an open letter to them—however it is also open to everyone who affirms their faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. 

What is confirmation?  In our everyday world, the word means to confirm that something in the past is still valid in the present.  Dictionary.com defines the word confirm as “to acknowledge with definite assurance,” “to establish the truth, accuracy, validity or genuineness of…” 

     Some years ago I travelled with my family and some dear friends over to England, Wales, and Scotland. We were to be gone for two full weeks.  There was no travel agency involved. I made the flight arrangements, rented the car, and over the internet I made reservations at Bed and Breakfasts all over the British Isles.  But I’m a stickler for detail and so as the trip approached I called and confirmed EVERY reservation I had made, just to be sure that I could depend on them. I don’t like surprises when I’m travelling in a foreign land.  Having confirmed all the reservations, the trip was far from over. There was a whole adventure out there to be experienced (and that was just after taking the steering wheel and driving on the LEFT side of the road!).

     How terrible it would be to end the journey after confirming the travel arrangements!  I’m sure you get the point here.  How terrible it is when we end our faith journey at confirmation when there is a whole world out there to discover through our faith in Jesus.  There are joys beyond our heart’s ability to contain them…and there are hurts to walk through with the strength that God gives.  There is a community of faith to depend on because there are so many others making this same journey.  We walk together in our faith.  Our faith is a daily experience that we never grow out of.  The journey is always in front of us and God has more in store for us than we can ever imagine.  I pray for these  young people affirming their faith. But I also pray for everyone who worships here at King of Kings that our journey together continues as God’s people expecting great things as we Know the love of God, Grow in His Word, and Sow that love throughout the world.

Pastor Bill  <><

 

Words From An Atheist

What does it mean when an avowed atheist tells Christians how important it is to witness to their faith? That is exactly what Penn (of Penn and Teller fame) says in this video blog on YouTube. Watch what he has to say, and then think about what that means to you.

Video from Penn on YouTube
What does Penn say that we need to hear?
Will this change how we think or act?

Pastor Bill <

Turn Your Eyes to Jesus this Lent

 

I recently shared in a sermon with our congregation the story from John 3 about Moses lifting the bronze serpent in the wilderness.  The story comes from Numbers 21:4-9.  The Israelites were grumbling once again against God and Moses as they wandered in the wilderness.  Poisonous snakes came into the camp and bit people, and many people died.  God told Moses to put a bronze snake on a pole, and anyone who looked at the snake were healed.  The snake had no healing power of it’s own, but as people lifted their eyes from themselves and put them back on God, they were healed.  This short and rather obscure story from the Old Testament is a peek into the future of what Jesus was going to do on the cross.  As we have been “bitten” with the sting of sin and death, God calls us to lift our eyes off of ourselves to see what He has done on the cross of Jesus Christ, and we are saved.  It is a wonderful story that reminds us that we come to the cross of Jesus in this Lenten season with empty hands and broken lives.  We come to the cross and lift our eyes to see what God has done for us!  That is the glory of John 3:16!

But now, as Paul Harvey says, here is the rest of the story.  If you read in 2 Kings 18:1-4, you will find another reference to this snake on the pole.  We find that about 650 years later, Israel has been offering incense to this object which has now become a spiritual idol.  They even named it the “Nehushtan.”  King Hezekiah was known for cleansing Israel from her worship of Idols, and he took the bronze snake and smashed it to pieces.

This part of the story reminds us of how easy it is for us to take our eyes off of God and put them on other things. Even those things around us that we hold dear as a part of our understanding of God can become a hindrance to our faith when we allow them to get in the way.  We raise altars and pulpits, buildings and instruments, books and writings to a status that is almost “god-like.”  They become the focus points of our worship.  God intended these things to speak to us in special ways to raise our eyes from ourselves and turn our eyes on Jesus. 

In this Lenten season, what turns our eyes away from Jesus?  What turns us from connecting to God first in our lives?  What kinds of things distract us?  As the prophet Joel says, “Return to the Lord your God, for He is gracious and merciful; slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.”  Let this season turn our eyes to Jesus!

 

Pastor Bill  <><

 

More…more…more!

At a recent coaching event, Ralph (my coach) used an analogy for leadership that I think is very worthwhile sharing.  He asked me to imagine a table sitting in a room. And you back up a truck filled with sand to the table and begin dumping the sand on the table.  Once the truck is empty, how much sand will the table hold?  My answer, “It depends on the size of the table. It will only hold what it can due to size and strength.”  Then he asked, “Okay, so we send a second truck and start dumping sand on the table.  How much more will the table hold?”  My answer, “No more. It can’t hold more. It can only hold what was dumped the first time.”

The analogy?  You can’t grow as a leader just by dumping more stuff on yourself!  You have to increase the size of the table!  And you can do that two ways.

First, you can read more, listen to pod casts, discuss it with others, or hire a great coach!  But the most important part is accountability.  You won’t change or grow without it.  Case in point–at another conference recently, the leader said that a study was done of a number of people who had heart bypass.  That means three or more blockages in their heart had to be fixed.  They went back to them one year later, and found that 90% of those who had this massive surgery went back to the things that got them sick in the first place.  Why?  Because they figured they had lots of time again to change, if it ever happens.  But what about the 10% who changed?  Was it because they made changes and stuck to them?  Or were they the type to get motivated?  Nope.  It was because in every case, those who changed their lifestyle by eating or walking or exercising had a partner to which they were accountable.  Learning without having someone holding us accountable to put our learning into practice fails 90% of the time. And even if you are the motivated type, chances are you will not initiate the changes needed even though you know you need to. Good intentions fail 90% of the time! So increase your table size by learning–but also have accountablility.

Second–you can increase the size by bringing others along side your own table. Their tables increase the overall size, and you can hold more and grow more.  AND–once together, you can hold each other accountable for growth. 

The proverb is true, “As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”  (Proverbs 27:17  NLT)

What Would Jesus Do?

I just returned from our annual Bishop’s Theological conference, and like so many conferences I have attended, there are nuggets of thoughts that I bring back with me. At this particular conference, our presenter shared with us a thought from Martin Luther about what Jesus did as He was nailed to the cross. Was this a time of passivity, simply waiting to die? Or did Jesus continue in ministry, even with His hands and feet nailed to the wood? It reframed for me the question that was asked until we were all quite sick of it… “What would Jesus do?”

Luther saw three things that Jesus did as he endured the cross.

First, Jesus prayed. From beginning to end, He lifted prayers. “Father, forgive them,” “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me,” and “Father, into thy hands I commit my Spirit.” With hands and feet imobilized, while others made fun of Him and still others cried for Him, Jesus prayed.

Second, Jesus proclaimed. To the thief on the cross, Jesus declared, “Today you will be with me.” At the end, He declared in a single (Greek) word, “It is finished!” He shared the message of grace even when no one else wanted to hear.

Third, Jesus sacrificed. When He had nothing else to give–no water into wine, no bread and fish, no lepers cleansed, no dead raised–He gave Himself. Jesus gave all that He had so that the world might see God’s love in action.

How often I have felt immobilized, ineffective, unable to do anything that I think is useful. When I don’t have the words, the courage, the strength to go on, what do I do? What should I do?
Pray, Proclaim, Sacrifice.
Pray for those around me, not just my own needs, but the needs of others. Lift my eyes so that I might see, and I might pray.
Proclaim God’s love. I don’t have all the answers, but all the answers aren’t needed. Just the relationship in all of it’s authenticity. I don’t always know why and how, but I know who! I know who loves me, and I know who loves all. Tell the story to someone. Proclaim the promise.
Sacrifice for another. Put love into action. Even in the smallest deed, a cup of cold water for one who is thirsty, is a gift given in love. Give generously. Generously give of myself. It is in giving that we receive. It is in forgiving that we are forgiven. And it is in dying that we are born again.

When all else fails, when I can’t do anything else, what can I do?
What did Jesus do, when he could do nothing else? When hands and feet were nailed?
Pray………. Proclaim………..Sacrifice.

What do you think?

3:16

Last month I was watching the BCS bowl game between the Oklahoma Sooners and the Florida Gators. Players from both sides showed great spirit for their teams and their colleges.  Most of the players had that black grease smeared beneath their eyes to cut down the glare. From the lights. But I noticed that one of the players had white writing on the black paint (I can’t remember which player right now).  At the end of the game, this player took off his helmet, and written in the black paint in white letters were the simple words, “John 3:16.”

What a wonderful confession of faith this is to see on a young man who can so easily be drawn into the sports culture of “I’m great” and “It’s all about me.”  This simple verse that is so well known contains in 26 words the essential truth of the Christian faith.  It is a 26 word parable of hope. 

He loves.    He gave.

We believe.   We live.

Those simple words give us the greatest hope.  They remind us of the greatest gift.  This one verse is in my top 5 of scripture verses that every Christian should memorize and carry in their hearts.  It is a reminder of the incredible grace God has given us in Jesus.

On Sunday, February 8th, we will begin a sermon series on John 3:16 based on Max Lucado’s new book, “3:16.”  This sermon series will carry us through to the glorious celebration of Easter as we remember the final words of the verse, “eternal life!” 

I hope you have also had the chance to sign up for one of our LifeGroups.  Don’t miss this opportunity to gather together with other people of faith to share in the depths of this verse as it relates to our faith.  You don’t even have to be a member of King of Kings to participate. Just have a willing heart to learn and grow with other believers who are on the same journey as you are; a journey of grace and faith!  You can still sign up at church, or on line at our web page. (http://www.kofklo.org/lifegroups/signup.html)

Grace and Peace in the wonder of God’s love!

Pastor Bill   <><

 

Something Old, Something New

There is something new coming to King of Kings. But, as the title of this blog alludes, it is also something old.  Our name for it is “LifeGroups.”  Now many people immediately say, “that sounds like small groups.” And you would be right. But you’d be wrong too.  (Gosh I’m having fun with this!)  In some sense it is like small group ministry, in that it does involve groups. But that is where the similarity ends.

Small groups have typically been about gathering a group of 8 or so people together who will meet for 18 months to two years, or until Jesus comes again, to develop deep, intimate, soul searching, transformational relationships. 

LifeGroups are a group of 15-20 people. The size is larger so if there are people who can’t make it one week, you don’t reduce your group down to 6 or 4 people.  LifeGroups meet in semesters of 8-12 weeks, depending on the season. You only commit to that period of time together and then when it is finished, you can sign up for the next semester or take some time off.  LifeGroups is about making friends.  It is about getting to know people in our church community.  Intimacy comes from making frienships as a natural development of relationships.  There are basically three semesters in a year:  Fall, Winter (Lent) and Spring.  During one semester each year, probably in the Fall, all LifeGroups will be doing the same curriculum, supported in our worship services.  The other two semesters, LifeGroup Leaders will chose the curriculum for their group from a list of study programs (or one that is approved by the LifeGroup Team) that is pertinant to their LifeGroup situation.  Everyone may be doing something different.

So why are they called LifeGroups?  Because half of the groups offered will have a common relationship theme. For instance, there will be Women’s Groups, Men’s Groups, Married Couples, Parents, 50+, 25 and under, etc.  The other half of the groups offered will be general groups that may only have in common that they are meeting on Tuesday night at 6pm at someone’s house!

Coming in Lent, 2009 will be our Launch time for LifeGroups. You will hear a lot more about this in the coming months, newsletter, church emails, and sermons.  So here is your head start to be thinking AND praying for this wonderful opportunity.  This is a great way for our members to get to know each other, GROW in the word (part of our mission), and connect new members into the fabric of King of Kings.  Don’t miss out on these opportunities.  It isn’t just a program we are launching. This is a way for us to be the Body of Christ together.